The definition of relationships is A particular type of connection existing between people related to or having dealings with each other:. This means that bothpeople in the relationship have to work together to keep it healthy, and strong. So why is it that girls always do all the work in the relationship? Girls are constantly thinking or talking about their crushes or boyfriends. Boys on the other hand think about sports or video games. What is with that? Girls are more emotional and like to talk about things while boys blow everything off and try to avoid talking about about their feelings. From my experience so far, (which is not a lot, but a fair amount) i found that boys would rather have things go their way then let anything else happen. And then the girls, who are trying to avoid a fight let them do or have it their way, because they care more about their partners happiness more then theirs.

Sometimes guys can be so inconsiderate they don’t even care or consider the fact that they might be in fact actually hurtinga girl. One more thing that i completely do not understand is why guys fly off the handle, and for most of the time it is about something stupid. I recently had a lets just say an encounter with someone that didn’t end so well. I wish things would of gone differently, but they didn’t so now i have to live with the fact that we’re  know longer friends. which is not the way i wanted it to end, but that is how it is. We both said some things that we didn’t mean, and some things we did. But my point is that why waste a perfectly good friendship on something as stupid as a fight?

Now guys i’m not totally against you on this whole topic, i mean the girls also have things that totally ruin relationships. Like how girls are always so emotional, an demanding. No guy likes a girl with to much emotional baggage, or a girl that is to demanding. They feel like they never have time for themselves because they are always having to please their girlfriends. If the girl is doing this the guy will most likely leave, and move on to someone else that is more “fun.”

Now my idea to ending all this ciaos is to just avoid relationships entirely. (this goes for teenage relationships.) I mean there is really know point in even having them, you can’t really even do anything at this age,a nd neither boys nor girls have enough life experience to even be worrying about another person, when we barely take care of ourselves.