When you get married you are promising another person commitment, love, trust, honesty, etc, but how do you know that your going to feel that way forever? How do you know that your feelings aren’t going to change? You don’t, but you have to take a Chance, and hope that everything will work out.
Marriage is supposed to be one of the best things in life., but my biggest worry is that i Will get divorced. Now I don’t think that anyone actually plans to get divorced, or even thinks about it when they start a life with someone, but you have to think about if you can see yourself with this person for the rest of your life which is probably the first thing that goes through your head when you get married, but then why is it that so many people get divorced?
When you get married it seems that divorce comes in a short few years. It didn’t used to be that way, but as the years went on i’ve noticed that everyone I know is getting divorced for some reason or another. There’s only one couple that i look up to and thats my best friends parents they’ve been together for 21 years, they have shown me that marriage has it’s ups nd downs, and how they have made it through all these years. They’ve given me hope that I can actually have a sucssesful relationship. Now i may only be 13 and shouldn’t be thinking about marriage quite yet, but i still have thoughts about it, and worry that i’m going to end up like my mom. Alone with four kids working seven days a week.
So, when marriage comes along in my direction I have promised myself that I will do everything in my power to stay married, and not have to start over.
That all is very true. Your last sentence though ‘I have promised myself that I will do everything in my power to stay married, and not have to start over’ is not the best thing to promise. If you are stuck with someone you hate why would you want to have to stay with them? My parents are divorced too, as you probably know. Now if they would have stayed together it would have been really bad, and now that they have split it still is bad, my mom chose between awful and worse.
Great topic and great piece.
Kudos,
January 29, 2007 @ 9:36 amYou can’t really tell the persons personality untill your with them, otherwise they wouldn’t have gotten married. Although most are just marriges gone wrong, some are from people who aren’t very nice. I see that a lot in Hollywood.
February 1, 2007 @ 8:35 pmGood post,
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